Mar 20, 2007
Changes, Changes, Changes....
That's all I'm going to say for now. Until I find my words. Right now, I seem to have lost them.
Nov 23, 2006
Thanksgiving
And being with my sis..... Melody... *I love you*

Oct 30, 2006
Life in the ummmmmm slow lane
The girls are enjoying school! Adri is making friends and Anna is doing SO much better in school. The classes here are very different from your traditional school and we are loving that!
The little people are doing really well too. They have made friends now with Justin, Katie and Samantha. While she's not taking away Samantha's binky, Abby, is especially loving Justin, she calls him "jon jon". She likes to tell him "no no!" and "shhhh". She has been cracking me up. Sunnydale has had a blast running around and playing.
We all miss Daddy and are counting down the days until he gets here! Love you Sunnydale!
I agree with him too, that we'll start saving now for the John Deere Car. *laughing* That will be great!
I'll try to update more often with pictures.
Oct 21, 2006
Getting Settled

It's actually a light pink, but it comes out darker in the picture.
Here is a picture of something you'd only see here in Mississippi
It's a John Deere Car....*laugh*

Oct 7, 2006
Cheap Shot
Well, today is Saturday and Monday afternoon, I need to be completely done with the house. I've pretty much wasted my morning playing around with my new cell phone and working on this blog. Even though I'll be computerless for a while. LOL I need to clean up the blog before it gets packed away. That's how I feel about my house!
I'm pretty much done though. All I have to do now is wash the bedding from all the rooms , take down the trampoline, drain all the oil/gas from the lawnmower and we should be good to go.
I think I'll be glad when we actually get on the road, then I can breathe cause there won't be anything to do except drive! :)
Thanks for the prayers, keep em going up! ~C.
Oct 6, 2006
Ma Ma Ma Ma Mary, this ones for you!!
*grin* - Mary, this means that you click on "comments" at the end of this post. Then you type your message, then click on "other", type your name, type in the word verification and then you're done! *hehe, I'll be expecting you to reply now* LOL
I thinking about switching over to the Beta form, so we'll see.
Today I'll be crazy busy trying to fit everything into my schedule as we are fast approaching "The Move". I have to say we have some very special family members who are making this move easier than I ever thought. *thanks*
Hopefully, Jamie, can keep the blog updated for me since I won't have a computer until....... I have no idea how long it'll be. March??? Wow, I hadn't given that one any good thought until now, huh? Hmmm. Note to self - need computer before March.
Ok, well I'm rambling. I've been up since 2:30 am. Can't sleep. The house is clean and the laundry is almost complete. I mean, complete, complete. Where there is no dirty laundry hiding anywhere in this house! All I have left to wash is the bedding. I'm waiting until Sunday to do that since we're sleeping on it and the point is to pack it clean. *grin*
I suppose since it's 4:43 and my hubby hasn't left for work yet, I should go and see if he's sleeping late on purpose. *wink*
~C.
Oct 5, 2006
Jamie's whole family



We went to Burney,Ca for Hailee's 1st birthday with my parents and took many pictures,so you'll probably see many of them. In the other picture Hailee was probably 7th months old,she is the princess of THIS house.
Forever friends
Jamie and I met 9 years ago here in Monterey and have become the best of friends over the last 9 years. She has 3 boys and a girl and we have 3 girls and a boy. I'm going to miss being so close, even if it is a 5 hour drive that I refused to make...*laughing*
I love ya, Jamie and we'll get our families together before too long. I'll miss you and I love how we've been through everything together. *smack*
Kiss those kids for me,
Christi
Christi's best buddy!!!

This is Christi's best friend Jamie that lives in Redding,Ca, Hailee is Jamie's 4th child. She also has 3 boys ,Braedon ,Andrew,and Zachary. Christi and Jamie have been friends since 1998.
Oct 3, 2006
Taking Care of His Soldiers....
Even those who don't believe, he's there, waiting for them to turn to him.
And when they do, he's ready for them. Always prepared, always taking care of things ahead of time.
Always picking up the pieces of his weary soldiers.
The military is very different. My experience, today, with the military went something along these lines.....
(Me walking into the finance office to fill out the paperwork for our travel pay)
"Yes, I have my husbands separation orders and I need to fill out the appropriate paperwork so that we will receive our travel pay"
her - "He's getting out of the Army?"
me - "yes"
her - "you have his orders?"
me - "yes"
her - "Well there is nothing I can do for you until he attends the separation briefings"
me - "He's not actually separating until Feb."
her - "then why are you here?"
me - "I have my husbands orders because I need to fill out the appropriate paperwork to receive our travel pay, we're leaving in a week, he's leaving in a few months"
her - "you can not receive your travel pay before his ETS date"
me - "yes, you can if you have orders"
her - "do you have orders?"
**rolling my eyes in my head and thinking how many times I've already repeated myself I reply...**
me - "ummm, yes" while pointing to the papers she's holding in her hand.
her - "yeah, about these, it doesn't specify that the travel pay is allowed for you and your children before the ETS date"
me - "orders are orders aren't they? They wouldn't have cut them this early if they were not for us to use."
her - "I'm sorry, but there really isn't anything I can do. Except I can tell you that in April you can fill out this form and send it in. Where are you driving to?"
me - "Mississippi"......"Grenada, Mississippi"
her - "let's see here..." punches in some info on a computer....."you will be allowed 20c a mile, 74.25 per day for yourself and 49.50 per day per child. But like I said, you can't even see if your eligible for that until April."
me - "ummm, well thanks for letting me know how much I probably won't be getting. That's always pertinent information."
her - stares at me over her little glasses
me- trying to think of something polite to say....
her - "anything else I can help you with?"
When did she help me??
me - "no, I suppose not for now"
her - "well......" then she gets real quiet and hands me a small stack of papers like they're holding some serious secret information...."take these, give them to your husband, it'll help him when he's out processing."
me - "ummm, thanks. Bye"
I get out to the truck and I open the stack of papers. What are they??????
WHAT ARE THEY????
She had handed me back his orders and my Power of Attorney I had given her. Good grief.
That was a sample of how my day was. I couldn't help but to compare how God is always prepared to take care of us, even if we are separating ourselves from him. He's always there, holding out his hands to us.
I'm done with that. The Army has a lot of really great perks that make it difficult to leave, but once you get past the comfort zone, and realize it's a security blanket full of holes, it isn't too hard to leave.
It is, disappointing.
God isn't like that. His promise is that even through the bad, he's going to be there with us. To love us to comfort us. He isn't going to take the hurt away, but he'll hold our hand when the waters rough. He'll prevent us from drowning. His deep and intense love for us will be our life raft.
What an incredible Father we have!! We're so very blessed. So blessed. ~
Oct 2, 2006
Abby and Anna ready for their day

I remember when Anna wore this dress!! Wow, time flies. Getting ready for our move so the posts will be few for a while. Keep us in your prayers.
~ Christi
Sep 28, 2006
Nothing would be normal if plans didn't change *grin*
It's going to be a long DRIVE home. Yep, drive. Not FLY, but Drive. *sigh*
Sep 27, 2006
"You Picked A Fine Time To Leave Me, Lucille...."
This is one of the busiest times of the year at the Chapel. Everyone gearing up and preparing for all the fall/winter programs. Those take months to plan. And I'm leaving.
Tonight was the last night I will have any actual work to do. Tomorrow, Friday and Saturday I will spend cleaning out my office and tying up any last minute loose ends. Today, I finished typing up the inventory of my supply closet and the books, curriculum, CD's, DVD's and cassette tapes that are in my office. 6 long pages of detailed inventory. But it is done. I turned it in and went back to my office to have a look around. Making my list for what needs to be done tomorrow. I don't know who will be sitting at that desk next week. I have no idea what God has in plan for the Chapel here. I do hope that whoever it is and whatever their task, they fulfill it joyfully in the Lord. I hope that when they are faced with difficult tasks, or difficult people, they shine brighter than when things are running smoothly.
I'm proud of my accomplishments here. I'm proud of myself for finishing the task. For persevering even when my faith was stomped on, when my integrity was tested and when I very simply felt like I couldn't do it any more.
I have something, now, that is worth more than money can buy. It is more precious than the most precious gold or diamonds.
I've a new Girdle of Truth. And I'm wearing it proudly.
Yes, Girdle of Truth. You know, part of the Armor of God.
First mentioned because it denotes preparation for battle.....and holds together the other pieces of armor. Girdle of Truth is strength of our loins.....gives confidence....1 Cor. 16:13, Eph 4:14-15, 1 Sam 17:48. According to Mr. James Davis, it is sincerity in the innermost being, he describes scriptures 1 Cor. 5:8, Psa 51:6.
It's the girdle of truth because that's what I've found over the last year. A person inside of me that is slowly coming out of her shell. Probably more so to the people around her than to the people she loves, yet that is a feat that will be conquered also.
I'm realizing that I have a potential to be something bigger than I've ever dreamed. Because to me, God, Jesus, being a Christian was just a bottled up package that I bought.
Not anymore. It's my faith. It's who I am. It's why I'm alive.
We use to sing this song in church.....it's my Mom's favorite...(rolls eyes), Called Tempted and Tried....I know the words by heart...that's scary...LOL
Tempted and tried we're oft made to wander, Why should it be such all the day long? While there are others living around us, never molested, though in the wrong. Farther along, weÂ’ll know all about it farther along, weÂ’ll understand why cheer up my brother walk in the sunshine weÂ’ll understand it all by and by.
I may hate the song and it's oh so slow......... drawn.......... out..........music..............
But I think the lyrics truly are correct. I do understand more this year than I did last year. I have a better understanding of my faith and why I believe things the way I do. I can say that I know my Father. And I know why he loves me. I can't wait to see how much more I'll understand next year and the year after that and the year after that.
Ok. Well, I'm exhausted. And I'm still in pain. So I'm going to bed.
Did I mention that I fractured my knee cap? It happened Wednesday, but I didn't go to the Dr. until Friday. So now I have to wear this brace with a steel bar on both sides of my leg and another steel bar that runs down the back. Hopefully this won't hinder our plane ride too much.*laughing* This will be one for the books!!
~

Sep 26, 2006
Dear Dad
A father passing by his son's bedroom was astonished to see the bed nicely made up and everything neat and tidy.
Then he saw an envelope propped up prominently on the pillow.
It was addressed, "Dad"
With the worst premonition, he opened the envelope and read the letter with trembling hands:
Dear Dad, It is with great regret and sorrow that I'm writing you. I had to elope with my new girlfriend because I wanted to avoid a scene with you and Mom.
I've been finding real passion with Joan and she is so nice. I knew you would not approve of her because of all her piercing, tattoos, and her tight motorcycle clothes and because she is so much older than I am but it's not only the passion, Dad, she's pregnant.
Joan says that we are going to be very happy. She owns a trailer in the woods and has a stack of firewood, enough for the whole winter. We share a dream of having many more children.
Joan has opened my eyes to the fact that marijuana doesn't really hurt anyone. We'll be growing it and trading it with the other people in the commune for all the cocaine and ecstasy we want.
In the meantime, we'll pray that science will find a cure for AIDS so Joan can get better; she sure deserves it!
Don't worry Dad, I'm 15 years old now and I know how to take care of myself.
Someday, I'm sure we'll be back to visit so you can get to know your grandchildren.
Your son, Chad
P.S. Dad, none of the above is true. I'm over at Tommy's house. I just wanted to remind you that there are worse things in life than the report card that's in my desk drawer.
I love you! Call when it is safe for me to come home
Sep 25, 2006
Life runs, I walk.
Please pray that this goes ok. If you're reading this and it's Monday, just take a second and say a prayer for our family. Today marks the beginning of a completely new life. A beginning as an "on the way to becoming a civilian family". Being home owners is a task that I'm certain we're ready for. It's exciting, to know that I no longer have to hang pictures, decorative tile, or anything else for that matter, with Velcro. (You can decorate almost your entire home with Velcro. You would be amazed at what that stuff can hold.....) Still, until tomorrow is over, I'm going to slightly hold my breath. It ain't over till it's over. *grin*
On that note, I can tell you that I'm ready to move. Not anxious, just ready. I'm past the point of making lists ( I live for lists ), of all the things I need to do before the movers come. I am, however, at the point of throwing away everything and starting over with all new stuff. *just kiddin*
This will mark our 14th move. Let me tell you, I have learned that it is ALL about the UNpacking. Get all the clutter put away, anything that is trash thrown away. Anything that can not be moved (liquids, cleaners, garage stuff...oil...soap, perishable items....the likes) should be giv en away to some grateful person. Then, you should organize all the books in the house into one location. This makes un packing so much easier. If you know it's books, you can unpack it last. All toys should be moved to one location, all clothes should be in the proper drawers in the proper rooms, all jewelry should be placed together, all telephones and cords should be together, all computers should be in one location....you get the idea?
I've unpacked boxes before where they packed, shoes, clothes and papers together in one box. They will put anything together just to fill a box. Dumping out every drawer in your entire house will give you an idea how how much of a clutterbug you are, but it will also allow you to get rid of the unnecessary items and keep the important ones.
So many people think that if you clean a room and leave it the way it usually is, they will come in, pack it up and you can unpack it the same exact way. Not true. Most likely, the layout of the rooms where you live and where you are going are not going to be the same. Also, you would be surprised how much the movers can tear your house apart while packing. You think it's really clean until they start unloading drawers and dumping out the items in your desk and bathroom cabinets. Not to mention your storage room and garage.
I have a system though. And I like it.
I walk around and mark each and every box they pack, as they pack it, with priority numbers. An open me first box, will have clean towels, linens and toilet paper. It will also have the telephones and their cords, a skillet, 2 pots, paper plates, plastic cups and disposable silverware. For this move, I will include a package of batteries, the new magic erasers by Mr. Clean and a COPY of the kids health and school records, just in case something should happen to the ones on the plane.
Then, I go around and mark the priority of the rest of the boxes. The idea, is to get the number of boxes down to a minimum. We have a ton of furniture. So hopefully, most of the boxes will hold the kitchenware, clothes, book, toys etc. The goal is to NOT have to open a box at the new house and say "oh good grief, this is junk". *grin*
The other goal, is to be able to immediately direct all boxes that can go straight to storage, to storage. And be able to focus on the boxes that contain the things we use on a regular basis.
That's my theory on packing down and unpacking a house. *smile*
Sep 22, 2006
Mom owes me money

Ok, here's a funny for today....
Tonight, I was in the kitchen and Anna walked in holding a small brown envelope. She says..."Ahem, look what I found".
The envelope says "Anna's tooth". It's an old envelope.
She eyes me curiously "Do you know what this means?" she asks.
"what" I reply
She smiles and gives me a knowing look. She found the envelope in a dresser drawer.
Somewhere deep down, I knew I shouldn't have put it there.
I tell her, "you know what it tells me? It tells me that the Tooth Fairy never came for it. If I were you I'd put it under your pillow."
Then I smile at her.
Without batting an eye she replies "Yeah, Mom, that's what I'll do, then maybe the Tooth Fairy will leave the $23.00 she owes me" She laughs and winks at me. I wink back.
I love this kid!
Sep 12, 2006
Anna's Story
By Anna Hyde
It all started on the 100th day of school. "Miss B. is always giving us F's. It's not fair!" Jack said. "Well, not all of us, only kids like you, who like flunking." Amy insisted. Amy's the kid in the group who'a always saying stuff like "technically" and things like that. "Listen guys, there are only 3 of us. I think the other 22 are just fine with Miss B." I said. I'm kinda like Amy, pointing out the obvious.
We were heading to school. When we got there the bell had just rung. So, again, we were five minutes late. "OK, class, time to hand out the answer tests!" Miss B. was explaining. I saw Jack writing a note. He handed it to Amy. After she read it she gave it to me. It said, "Here we go again, F, F F's!". I saw Miss B. heading toward us. I quickly put it in my desk.
Miss B. handed Amy her test. "Yes!" I gave her a look. She had a happy look on her face. Then Miss B. gave Jack his test. He said " I told you so!" He got a F. Miss B. then stopped at me. She said "Wow". Noting else just "Wow". Slowly I opened my sheet. I got an A!!!
I started to get one of my papers out of my desk. Then as I began to write I noticed that it looked different. I continues to write. I realized that once I thought of what I wanted to write, it was already on the paper. So I gave it to Amy and shrugged. She knew something was wrong. She opened the paper, and it read "No, here we go again...A, A, A's". Jack read it too and they both realized the difference. Jack started to pass it back.
Miss B. said, "Stop passing notes!" She started to take it from him. Then she said "You all get detention!". She opened the note and just stared at it. She saw a difference also. She sat down at her desk and started to think of something then stopped. It was already written on the paper! Then she saw a symbol at the top of the paper.
Instantly she said "Class, go out to early recess!". Everyone cheered. She called me, Amy and Jack up to her desk. "Where did you get this paper?" she asked. I said, "It was in my desk". Then she told us that it was worth 1 million dollars!!! She told us that we don't have any more detention but that she has to keep the paper. We groaned but we also knew that she was right to keep it. From then on we never wrote another note again. (We kept the paper to ourselves just in case).
The End
Sep 11, 2006
September 11th, 2006
270 days went by.
My heart broke every time the phone rang and it wasn't him.
My heart broke every time I left the house only to come home to a message he left on the machine.
That was the worst.
I can still feel the pain in the disappointment that I had left the house and missed his call.
Then I got a cell phone. And got word to him to call that number. ;)
I rarely missed a call after that.
But the calls came less and less.
Weeks would go by.
I would stay up half the night watching the news. Flipping back and forth from one channel to the next.
I took a few minutes tonight to allow the girls to watch a couple of the Memorial videos online.
Anna remembers.
Adrienne does not.
Adrienne had a lot of questions.
Anna answered a lot of questions.
They both got an eye opening view of their Dad and what he's done for them and for our country.
I'll never forget that day.
Sep 9, 2006
Mandatory Reading
I did.
I cried.
My heart opened in ways it never has before.
A wall came down.
I cried some more.
I prayed.
I listened.
I heard.
Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers a Christian Novel
Aug 25, 2006
Ms. Gladys

We moved to a little town called Bogue Chitto. I swear, really, it's called that. Sunnydale was the youth minister for this tiny church there. Tiny church. Did I mention that this place was tiny? I could tell you how tiny but I actually have fond memories and I don't want to come off as offensive...LOL
So there we were, Sunnydale was driving all the way up to Kosciusko to go to school on Mondays and Tuesdays at MBC. Needless to say, I got lonely when he was gone. We only had one car, so when he was gone it left me at home. I began going on walks up and down the street we lived on.
One day, on one of my walks, I noticed this older woman outside. In that southern hospitality that I truly love (and miss) we exchanged hellos. I recognized her as one of the older women at out church. She knew who I was and invited me in for some sweet tea.....(miss that too). Well, we began these visits regularly when Sunnydale was gone. And even when he was home, Ms. Gladys would invite us over and fix THE best meals. Let's just say we were well fed!!
On one of my visits she asked if I knew how to crochet. I said I didn't, but wished I did. Well that was all it took. She had tiny white thread wound around my hands and through my fingers with a needle going to work in no time. Those are some of the fondest memories I have. She would tell me stories about her life, when she was younger, and I would sit and crochet, fascinated with her.
Ms. Gladys was 93 when she taught me how to crochet.
An old friend called tonight, John Mark Smith, to let us know that Ms. Gladys had passed on to be with our Heavenly Father. I probably had an odd response, I thanked him for calling, it was extremely thoughtful, after all these years to think of letting us know. But now that I think about it, I didn't get any info for the funeral.....how she died, where she was...nothing. Here is this woman that I've thought of so often over the last 9 years and I didn't ask anything.
Then it occurred to me. I am very simply at complete peace with her passing. My very first thought was to thank John Mark for letting us know. It didn't occur to me to cry or mourn her. God had a reason for allowing her to live on this earth for so very long. She touched more people than just me, I can tell you that.
I'll remember her for her kindness, her loving compassion and endless smile. Never a harsh word or thought of judgment crossed over her lips onto my ears. She was very careful in how she taught me. I've never forgotten her and I never will.
Tonight, I celebrate her life. And I'm happy, for her, that she's home.
Aug 24, 2006
Chores
A man came home from work and found his three children outside, still in their pajamas, playing in the mud, with empty food boxes and wrappers strewn all around the front yard.
The door of his wife's car was open, as was the front door to the house and there was no sign of the dog. Proceeding into the entry, he found an even bigger mess. A lamp had been knocked over, and the throw rug was wadded against one wall.
In the front room the TV was loudly blaring a cartoon channel, and the family room was strewn with toys and various items of clothing.
In the kitchen, dishes filled the sink, breakfast food was spilled on the counter, the fridge door was open wide, dog food was spilled on the floor, a broken glass lay under the table, and a small pile of sand was spread by the back door.
He quickly headed up the stairs, stepping over toys and more piles of clothes,looking for his wife. He was worried she might be ill, or that something serious had happened.
He was met with a small trickle of water as it made its way out the bathroom door.
As he peered inside he found wet towels, scummy soap and more toys strewn over the floor. Miles of toilet paper lay in a heap and toothpaste had been smeared over the mirror and walls.
As he rushed to the bedroom, he found his wife still curled up in the bed in her pajamas, reading a novel. She looked up at him, smiled, and asked how his day went. He looked at her bewildered and asked, "What happened here today?"
She again smiled and answered, "You know every day when you come home from work and you ask me what in the world I do
"Yes," was his incredulous reply.
She answered, "Well, today I didn't do it"
Aug 23, 2006
"A Year of Memories" Life After Katrina....
Sunnydale has been blessed with the opportunity to fly to New Orleans this weekend for an event held in Pontiff Park.
"A Year of Memories"
Held at the Veterans Memorial Square
Pontiff Park
New Orleans
Please keep his travels in your prayers. Also, please keep all the people and families that Katrina affected in your prayers. Anniversaries have a tendency to be very difficult.
~C.H.
Aug 21, 2006
You will NOT believe this!!!!!!
I was looking through Adri's backpack this afternoon and came across a worksheet of math problems. Now, for those of you who don't know, Adri is in the 1st grade. She is repeating the first grade because her reading skills were not 2nd grade level, so we decided to allow her to repeat 1st. She started school when she was 4 so this is actually better because now she's with other 6 year olds.
Anyway, this math sheet had the basic of all basic math problems. For example....2+1=
So I noticed out of the 20 something problems, you could see where the teacher marked 16 of them WRONG. Ok, well, my first reaction was....ummm....what??? At the end of the year last year she was doing double digit addition, what's the deal?
So I brought her in here to talk to me about this without any of the other kids around. We sat down and I asked her about the worksheet. I told her that I need to know what's going on because I know she can do this math. This is the EASY math!
She put her hands on her face and said through her hands..."Mom, you're all mad at me and you don't get it......"
"Then please explain it to me, Adri"
She sat up in her chair looked me straight in the eye and said...
"Mom, if I do them all wrong the first time, then my teacher will have me erase them and I get to do them again"
WHAT???
She is doing them wrong on purpose because she likes math! She gets them wrong, then she gets to sit there and do it again.
That's hilarious. But clearly the wrong way to go about schoolwork.
Ok, so it's obvious she needs to be doing math that challenges her and this isn't it. I told her that tomorrow, if she'll get them all correct, then I'll tell her teacher that she has to give her extra worksheets to do. She said "You can do that?"
Ummm, yes. LOL
I suppose if you're going to have a problem at school, this is the one to have.
*laughing*
Aug 14, 2006
I should have known.....
After I got the key situation taken care of, I got some housework done, got the girls up and off to school and then was on my way to daycare when.......
I caught a glimpse of a little boy, too little to be in school, walking down the road. I stopped the truck, threw it in reverse and backed up just to see if it really was a little boy....alone. I waited a minute or two (felt like 10) to see if his Mom or Dad came around.....still....quiet......he was alone.
I turned the truck around and drove down his street. When I arrived where he was, I immediately noticed that he was bawling. Not crying. BAWLING. His little face was all red splotched, you could tell he had been crying for a while. I turned my hazard lights on and got out of the truck. I asked him if he was ok and if he knew where his Mommy was. All he said was "My Dad's gone" over and over. He was maybe 4 years old...maybe.
So I looked around wondering what to do, I knew I couldn't put him in my truck so, off I went to the house where I had pulled over. I started to knock and saw it was cracked open. Then I thought, yeah, I bet he lives here. Nope. He didn't. Real nice lady answered though. She was just as upset as I was at the sight of him. He was that upset. Lost. Totally lost.
I asked her if she knew him and she said no then I said "I think you need to call the Police". She said ok and went back inside. I sat with him outside. When she came back outside after calling the Police, She held him while I pulled my truck into her driveway.
Then we noticed a man walking up the street. He was walking casually, not in a hurry. And when he reached her yard, she said to him "We found another one".....I was like huh? She explained that her own son had escaped her yard the other day while she was doing dishes.
So the man walks up and is talking to us he asked me where I found him and I explained what happened. Then AFTER THAT, he reaches out for the boy and takes him. It was HIS kid!!! And he didn't even say anything when he came up! The lady looks at him and said "oh! He's yours?"
The guy said yes and that was that. I couldn't believe it. The guy had left the kid home alone while he took the others to school. Sheesh.
I told him NOTHING was worth leaving him alone. Totally alone and asleep. Anything could have happened. Wow.
So the police came and took my statement and got the guys info and all of that but I have no idea what will happen to him, if he'll get into any trouble for leaving the kid alone. Probably just a good scare. Sometimes that's all that's needed is one good scare and then it never happens again.
What a day.
It isn't over yet. I'm going to hide.....
Oddities in Hayes Park
So here are a few things I noticed this morning when I stood on my front porch at 4:55 in the am waiting for Roadside Assistance.....
1. People drive carelessly, more so than usual. We live on a one way street that's in the shape of a half moon. Someone drove up the wrong way going quite fast this morning. It boggles me as to why people do this because going on our street serves absolutely no purpose unless you live on the street. We're not a shortcut in any sense of the word.
2. When the sprinklers come on, one of them goes around and around, continuously hitting the light pole and making this "zink, zink, zink" noise.......creepy
3. I was quite surprised how few lights I saw on other people houses. I just figured that most of the community, seeing as how we're all military, would be awake. But they are not.
4. The trucks alarm system works well and sounds especially loud and healthy at 5 in the morning.......I bet they're awake now.
5. An owl lives somewhere close to my house. I listened to it while I was waiting.
6. My neighbors have 2 flags in the front of their house, which they apparently follow procedure by taking down in the evenings. My other neighbors have a light on their flag. They are the only 2 houses on the street to have flags up. Hmm, I think that's weird.
7. And last but definitely not least, I am reminded of why I do not stand on my front porch in the dark...... little cute creatures called SKUNKS.
I think Sunnydale should cook dinner tonight. *grin*
How about some Peanut Butter & Jelly??
Roadside Assistance
:)
It's 4:46 in the morning and I just got off the phone with road side assistance. :)
Sunnydale locked the keys in his truck.
Er......someone locked the keys in his truck. :)
I'm sure it wasn't him. :)
He's all freaking out about the truck and I said, "you'll just have to take the car babe"...
There is this look on his face like...."the car.....but it's for girls.....I want my truck"
"it's ok, babe, things happen" is what I tell him. (guilt reminds me of last year when I locked the keys in the truck)
So he took the car.
I'm all proud because I spent my day on Saturday cleaning out the car. I mean I took a toothpick and an old toothbrush and cleaned my car, like I was going to sell it or something.
So I'm slightly disappointed that I don't get to drive it today.
However, I do get the truck. :)
It has air conditioning. :)
There's always a bright side.
So I called our car insurance and they are sending someone to get the keys out.
I'll blog again when it's over and I'm holding the "manly" truck keys in my hand. *grin*
Jul 25, 2006
Mercy or no mercy??
8If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, "Love your neighbor as yourself,"[a] you are doing right. 9But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers 10For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it. 11For he who said, "Do not commit adultery,"[a] also said, "Do not murder."[b] If you do not commit adultery but do commit murder, you have become a lawbreaker.
12Speak and act as those who are going to be judged by the law that gives freedom, 13because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment!
Basically, I see this as pretty cut and dry. Whether you sin once or ten times, you've sinned and broken the Law. Actually verses 12 and 13 are probably the ones I've been pondering the most.
It seems to me that so many people out there try so hard to find a way out of being merciful. In James we are told not to show partiality and yet, we do, we judge people and self righteously make up credible reasons not to show mercy. Someone wrongs us and we spend our lives sometimes trying to "right" the wrong. It's so much easier to not show mercy than to show mercy.
There are people who just can't help the situations they are in....Sometimes it's easy to show mercy to them. The children who are a living example of their conditions. However then there are people who are what they are because they have chosen that path. And let me tell you, we are told to show mercy to them also. There is no discrepancy in who we should show mercy to. Like them or not, frustrated and up to your ears in excuses, still, mercy will not be shown to those who have not shown it.
"Oh! But I have shown mercy". Don't be fooled. Showing mercy to some yet not others is just what is being discussed in verse 9!
It's definitely easier to show mercy to some. Sometimes it's very very hard to show mercy. Especially if someone hurt you or someone you love. But it's the fact that when you can show mercy, you are allowing yourself to be pulled up by God, you are fulfilling a purpose put on you only by Him who knows what we can and can not accomplish. And apparently, we can accomplish anything through Him. Striving to be Christ like is the key. Hard as that is, it isn't impossible or he wouldn't have asked it of us. Our Lord wouldn't give us false hope of being something we can't be!
Mercy triumphs over judgment! I love that.
I need all the mercy I can get, so that leaves me in a position to give all I can give. Judge me for that. And see where you are left.
Ok, let me just say something.
Sometimes the hardest lessons to learn, are the ones we think we already know. *sigh*
Jun 30, 2006
Anna and the King.....er....Drill Sgt.

The 2006 Army Birthday Ball.
This was SO much fun! I mean, getting her dress and fixing her hair and all that fun girl stuff. I stayed home this year with all the other banshees (sp??) and Anna got to go. After having to sit through all the speakers and the dinner last year I opted to sit this one out. *grin* It was held this year at the Monterey Portola Plaza.
Anna says it was all great except for the food.... Left a lot to be desired. On their way home they stopped in Borders Bookstore. All dressed up and nothing to read. Anna loves to read, I just wish Adrienne was as interested in reading as Anna! But Adrienne thinks it's fun to do Math in the summer, so I let her. She'll go through almost half of the math curriculum I have in just 3 weeks!
Anyway, so they had a great Daddy/Daughter date. This one was especially special. ;) We decided that each of our girls would have the opportunity to attend the Army Ball with their Dad the year they turn 10. Anna is 10 so it worked out really well for her. I think any younger than 10 and it wouldn't be enjoyed as much.
Anna is going through a hard time because most of her friends have moved. Though, she understands this is part of military life. Honestly, it's a little easier when you are the one moving, but we've lived here for 3 1/2 years and now we're saying goodbye to a lot of friends.....They're leaving yet we're still here.
Wow, I look at this picture of these two very special people and I just can't believe how fast time flies. Seems like yesterday we were in complete awe of this beautiful little life, totally and completely dependent on us. And Sunnydale had hair......Those were the days....*sigh*
Just kiddin! *smirky grin*
I'll have to post more about our Summer so far and all the things we have done......It's pretty busy and it isn't over yet!
May 4, 2006
Excerpt of Casting Crown's song "Can Anybody Hear Her?"
Does anybody hear her?
Can anybody see?
Or does anybody even know she's going down today
Under the shadow of our steeple
With all the lost and lonely people
Searching for the hope that's tucked away in you and me
Does anybody hear her?
Can anybody see?
If judgment looms under every steeple
If lofty glances from lofty people
Can't see past her scarlet letter
And we never even met her
If judgment looms under every steeple
If lofty glances from lofty people
Can't see past her scarlet letter
And we never even met her
Never even met her
Apr 20, 2006
Reminders of Faith
I'm pretty sure it was a few years after Sunnydale joined the military. Once we left the safe haven of "home" it was a much larger world than I ever knew it to be. And I thought I had tested the limits when I was a teenager! *laughing* I found that I was a little angry. I was angry at the life I grew up in.
Wait a sec and let me explain. I absolutely love the Lord and I am so excited about being a part of His ministry. But I've had to go through so much to get where I am. And it isn't over yet. That's the story I want to share tonight.
I'm now a firm believer that sometimes you have to lose something in order to appreciate it to it's fullest extent. Most people would probably associate that to a spouse or girl/boy friend.But I'm talking about faith. What you believe and why do you believe it. I believed everything my parents taught me when it came to church and the Bible and everything in it.
Borg would have considered me in the "pre-critical naivete". *scoff*
If you know me well nowadays, you'll know *exactly* how I feel about Marcus Borg and all the Christian people he's leading astray.
Anyway, so I began asking questions and mostly just listening and reading. Until one of the Chaplains I work with severely challenged my thoughts when he proposed to me that the Bible not be writings based on factual history. *what*??? This spun me...yep...You guessed it...Right down the "slippery slope to heresy" *grin*
Just kiddin. However, I did go through a pretty traumatic experience with the whole thing. I spent weeks reading all the books I could get my hands on. Johnson's "The Creed", Marshall's "Why the Jesus Seminar couldn't find Jesus" and a ton of things online. I printed out things periodically and handed them in to this Chaplain as my "defense". *laugh*
In case you don't know about the war out there with Robert Funk and his delusive followers such as Marcus Borg here is an example of what Borg believes...
The Bible as Word is symbol and metaphor.
His approach (and that of current biblical research) is Historical-Metaphorical.
The bible is not written for us or to us.
It is a mixture of memory and metaphor.
The bible is (David Tracy) "a religious classic."
The Historical metaphorical approach is the ability to hear the stories as true without
worrying about their historical accuracy.
A major need in the church and in education is help the people move from
A. A pre-critical naivete, thru
B. Critical thinking (How much do I take with me into adult life) to
C. Post-critical naivete: that is, able to hear as "true" events not factual.
"Now I don*t know for sure whether it happened this way or not, but this story is true...."
Now, through all the studying I've done (and I'm not done), I have come to my own conclusion. Which I am proud to say is truly my own conclusion that I worked hard for and not the conclusion of anyone else.
Obviously I strongly disagree with Borg. While I am respectful of his knowledge of the scripture, I am disappointed in his lack of sheer faith. Somethings got to be said for believing what is written. And I believe that Timothy warned us of such deceivers coming.
I also know that when I say to one of my 4 children "Tell me THE TRUTH, I want to know exactly what happened" I mean it.
Truth = Factuality
Borg would disagree.
So in all of this, I may slightly disagree with some of the beliefs I was brought up with. But I'm sure that it isn't anything essential to salvation. Mostly tradition disputes. The root is the root and to that I am sticking. I believe that I was taught in truth and in love.
I also believe that there are a lot of things that we argue over, things that sincerely bother us, that are not important issues for God. I think he wishes sometimes we'd put away the bickering and just worship him in freedom and love.
I wonder what he thinks of Borg. Probably something way out of the box and completely love inspiring. I'm not that wonderful. I feel a great deal of frustration to the teachings of Borg. A wise man told me not too long ago not to be frustrated, but fascinated. It changes your perspective greatly. I am having a difficult time finding anything fascinating about Borg's theology.....Then again, it did capture my attention. And I certainly know a lot more now than I knew 6 months ago.
~~
Apr 9, 2006
Random thoughts of sheer hydration

You know, I actually bid on my contract. If you'll remember back in September I wanted to become an independent Contractor.
*grin*
Being the Director of Religious Education at a military chapel definitely has been interesting. Especially for this girl with such a conservative background. Thinking back, it still amazes me at what a small world people live in when they surround themselves in a "Christian" environment. Forgive the quotes as I am still searching for clues to why people think it necessary to live like this. Did Jesus? No. Who did he eat with??? Thieves, murderers..Prostitutes?
But don't we get comfy in our pews, 3rd from the front on the right hand side. And isn't it amazing how quickly we judge when someone seems different.
Want to know how many times people have judged me for being different? Well, when we were younger (11 years ago...*laughing*) and we attended Bible college...I didn't exactly fit in. I didn't look or play the part. Funny how now, things are so very different. Now, I probably look a more worldly part, And suddenly I find an environment that I fit into. A sinful one? I don't think so.
I absolutely LOVE my job. Religious Education is definitely something I will pursue further. I have gained insight on so many things on so many levels.
However, I have come to the conclusion that the "Christian" lifestyle has the potential to be terribly deceiving. Going back to when we were in Bible college, yes, we made lifelong friends there and respected so many people. I never truly felt comfortable. It was the "learned environment". That people who worshiped differently were to be shunned. "Lofty glances from lofty people" (Casting Crowns) I've seen it my whole life. Someone raises their hands to praise God and all of a sudden you're having a sit down with the Elders......
I had spent my entire life a preachers daughter, yet couldn't seem to get my foot in the door of the crowd that people liked. Of course if I remember right, I carried a huge chip on my shoulder back then. *grin* But I didn't realize what the difference was until we moved away and joined the Army. Back there, in that beautiful small town, from my experience, most of the Christians kept themselves tightly and deeply involved inside their own community.
Out here, away from the southern lifestyle, things are very different. I certainly don't condone any lifestyle out here. Worship is very different. People don't care how many songs you sing before the prayer, or if anyone took communion to the nursery workers (our nursery workers are paid contractors...Like me!), it doesn't matter if no one responded to the invitation....Out here, the "alter call" which may be administered 2 times a year.
I've had to deal with so many political things lately. Working in a military chapel is different than how I thought it would be. But then again, I NEVER attended a worship service other than a church of Christ one. So what did I expect? Certainly not what I got. And I've been so disappointed with the political games I've been privy to. *grin*
Out here acceptance is a religion. That's dangerous. It's a danger to be treaded on like tiny shards of ice. Acceptance is a powerful tool. Satan uses it masterfully. As he takes our weaknesses in the palm of his hand and turns them over and over, grinning, strategically planning his next attack. Causing people all over to be so accepting of anything and everything.
I recommend throwing away any desire for acceptance. Funny, I learned a few years ago, that displaying confidence demands acceptance. It's the nature of people. Very simply, you are accepted if you display a strong sense of confidence. ;)
I love every stage I've been in. My life is full of memories, ranging in a variety of emotions. Yet I will remain grateful for each. They are who I am. My past is why I make the kinds of decisions I make today. It's how I am so deeply in love with my husband and our children. I wouldn't trade it for anything.
Apr 3, 2006
The "man room"....should that be in caps???

And of course...the Man, himself. Gorgeous isn't he?
*wink*
Apr 2, 2006
Half Geek Half Bully
I don't have time this week for girlie froo froo stuff. It's back to reality as it stands. I drank coffee this weekend and thought of someone when I did. I won't mention names but she knows who she is. Just couldn't quite enjoy it the same way......it was either guilt or not starbucks....*sigh* Although I did get the pick me up I was looking for. Which leads me to send you back to the post about being a coffeeholic.
I got absolutely nothing accomplished today. At least nothing in the way of laundry. Which is what I'll be up for the next 4 hours doing. But hey, if we can't admit our weaknesses then what good are we really? I figure the fact that I KNOW who I am and can admit it is a major plus.
If the first step is admittance then I've only got 11 steps left right?
Might I add that this past week was enlightening on several different levels. All of which are not related but encompass some disturbing similarities. Well, I don't know if disturbing is the right word.....
Remember a few months back when I was so irritated by the women around me? (November blog) I think I figured it out this week. I can't say here, for the obvious reasons (hello friends!), but I think some of it is that I respect people who carry and execute their own opinions. People who say "Oh! Well, no actually, I think spinach is disgusting but if you enjoy it, more power to ya."
Rather than those who follow every word you say with an.."oh yeah I like that too"...or... People who change their opinion once they've heard yours. *rolls eyes* That just eats at me. Come on! If you agree, agree, if you don't say so. I'm so sick of people who want to be liked so badly that you can't even hold a conversation with them.... because you never know what their opinion really is.
I think I've lost a daily dosage of brain cells over this since October. *rolls eyes and grins*
Mar 21, 2006
My name is Christi and I'm a coffeeholic.....
I think I've decided that I should open up a B&B for recovering coffeeholics.
And I've realized that NOTHING can actually take the place of coffee. You just have to get over it. *sigh*
I'm not sure I'm completely ready to kick my habit. (does that make me an official 'holic?)
So anyhoo, I'm 30 now. I had a b'day a couple weeks ago. I don't feel 30. And I know I don't look 30. Seriously, I took one of the teens from church to school the other day and the teacher out front said..."you guys need to get in the hall quickly, you've got 2 minutes before you're late". She was looking right at me.
I stood there and looked at her a second before I pointed to myself and said "thirty" then pointed to the girl I was with and said "15". We had a good laugh and I left. Ahhh, nothing will ever replace that memory! *grin*
I had wrapped my hair in a scarf that day too, I swear I look older when I do that. *rolls eyes*
Oh well. I'm 30 and I'm loving it. Can't wait to be 40!!! I know, I'm nuts. But it would be a boring world if we all sat around complaining about the same things. *wink*
Mar 3, 2006
Thunderstorm!!!!
Our two youngest children and our dog have never heard a thunderstorm! In fact, in the three years we've lived here it hasn't rained this hard much less, EVER, have we heard thunder or seen lightening! *sigh, missing home*
It's been nice to listen to the rain. Although I have yet to get any sleep. Fortunately we went to bed early tonight (got to bed at 10 pm!) so at 12:30 after Sunnydale had already gotten up with Abby twice, I got up and have been up ever since. Once I finally got her to sleep, my little man woke up. He was sitting up in his bed crying for me. I crawled up in his bed with him and he said "I can not get to sleep!". However, his eyes were closed and I doubt he was truly awake. *grin* He's such a cutie! So now he's finally asleep. I came downstairs and decided to blog.
I'm sitting here and I look out the window where it's pouring rain and the lawn sprinklers just came on. What a funny sight! I don't know anyone in there right mind who would go out in the freezing cold, pouring rain at what is now 2:45 a.m. to turn off their lawn sprinklers, so don't look at me! *smile*
Okay, off to bed again. Wish me luck this time. :)
P.S. I'm just going to say this because it's about time and it's my blog so I can say whatever I want, right?
Chris, we're so proud of you!! You've been working on this degree for the better part of 9 years! So so so many obstacles have been put in front of you. Mostly by people you love, a lot by the military and you have jumped each hurdle with amazing height. What sincere dedication and loyalty you have shown. Don't worry about the future for the future will take care of itself. Take care of today! Don't allow the insignificant to become significant. (read what you want into that)
*laughing* We love you. Thanks so much for that precious wife of yours. Make sure you keep her!!! *grin* Although it wouldn't hurt to bring your family closer to ours!!! Congratulations!!!
Mar 1, 2006
Rainy Day in Paradise.....what??
We're all feeling better though. Now I'm just trying to get the house clean and all the linen washed from the yucky germs. If only I was a clone, then I could stay home and clean and go to work too!! *sigh*
Anna is so excited about being 10. In the military world it's a big deal to be 10. You get your military ID when you turn 10. So now she can go shopping in the PX and Commissary with her ID card. *smile* She's so sweet about it all. "Mom, now you can wait in the car and I can go get your groceries". Boy, do I wish!
Ok, well I'm off to change the sheets on the bed so we can go to sleep. *cheer*
nite!
Feb 22, 2006
Untitled Me
Well, now that I've made the important decisions.....*smirky grin*
Today was a weird day. Short day at work, didn't get there until noon. Left at 2:30. Just can't seem to pull myself together. I walk in that place and immediately want to leave. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the work, just uncomfortable with the environment.
I changed my schedule too, so I think it will help. Don't ask me why, most of the time I probably don't have very good reasons for my opinions. What's that phrase, opinions are like elbows...Everybody has a couple. *smile* I like that about my job though, that I can change my schedule. I can stay home if I need to or work longer if I need. I LOVE being an independent contractor. And this Religious Education thing is a lot of fun. I think it's the whole "protestant" thing that's bothering me. Not that I agree with all of the "church of Christ" stuff either. So finding my place is a strange feeling. Hmmm. I'll get back to you on that one.
So I wore my favorite red shirt today. Hate that I have only one. *grin* It's one of those shirts I'd wear everyday if I could just cause I like the fit. But I suppose I'd be committing a fashion crime if I had a bunch of shirts that were exactly alike. Although now that I think about it, I'm famous for buying the same style in more than one color...*laughing*
Ok, well, my old friend, Tide, is calling my name. He pretty much hangs out in the laundry room all day. Although I'm beginning to resent him. I feel used when he's around. Like he's got this thing for cleaning. It's weird if you ask me. *rolls eyes* He's got his friend, Downy, with him this week and let me tell you, she smells soooo good. *wink* *laughing*
Ok, ok, so I only humor myself. But it's a great world when you can admit you're retarded and love it. I admit it and I love it. I'll forever look 10 years younger because of it.
nite nite all ~
Jan 30, 2006
Battle of the brain...
I'd say that not much is going on, but that wouldn't be true! January has been busy and February will be even busier! My parents are coming on the 7th *cheer*, and yes that is our 11th anniversary. *wink*
"One More" will be recording on the 10th, 11th and 12th up in Chico, Ca. Also at DLI on the 26th of Feb. They are currently getting ready to perform for the Battle of the Bands (Christian bands). So wish us luck! (in other words, pray pray pray!)
The fam is good. Kids grow fast when time flies! Abby is walking everywhere trying to run even! She is such a little sweetie as they all are. Anna's best friend just moved so today is her first day back at school without Tory. She was nervous not to have her friend by her side. It's a challenge to her now too, to make new friends. Adri is enjoying her new teacher at school. She enjoys it but gets frustrated because she says "all we do is count money...money, money money!" *grin* Sunnydale Jr. is doing really well also. Although he's eating me out of house and home. I really have no idea where he puts it all!
I am enjoying work SO much more!! We have a new Chaplain, and he is absolutely wonderful! His wife reminds me a lot of my Mom! They are truly kind people and put God first. I really appreciate that. Everyone in this Chapel is enjoying the atmosphere around here so much more. Thank you God!
Well, I need to run and get back to work. Continue to keep us in your prayers. That God will lead our family to where He wants and to do the work that He needs. Pray for the band too, they really are exceptional Christian musicians. ~
Jan 7, 2006
Back into the swing of things....
The kids started back to school this past Wednesday. Anna told me that they were working on a project in her class. They had to write their "New Years Revelation". I cracked up. So funny how kids interpret things differently inside their heads.
So, I was thinking last night while I was sleeping (yes, I'm a multi-tasker) about what my resolution would be for the year. I thought about all the normal things like, saving money, keeping in better touch with family, but then I came to the conclusion that it would be a lot more fun to try something new. So that's my resolution. Sometime this year, I'm going to try something new, no - not food. Something outside of my comfort zone. Broaden my horizons some. *grin* Hope you all have fun coming up with a goal for this new year. This is a big year for us, you know. We'll be thirty. I have complete mixed feelings about that....*laughing* However, at the same time, I'm excited about it.
Well, when I'm done here it's back to the land of Laundry, city of Tide. *sigh*
:D
Dec 29, 2005
Christmas with the Hyde's
I have been very proud of myself lately, awarding myself little “mother of the year” awards occasionally. For doing things out of the norm for me, like cleaning up more vomit than those Dr.’s on “ER” have EVER seen. *rolls eyes* Anyhoo, my “Mother of the Year” awards have been revoked as of last night. In fact, I think I’ve also been added to the non-eligible list for the award.
We were sitting there watching Gilmore Girls last night and the phone rang. It was my Mom. She asked me how Anna was feeling and we talked for a little while about that. Then she asked how Abby’s day went. I was slightly confused it was a weird question. So I said “her day went…fine…why?”…..then it came. The words every parent never wants to hear….
“Isn’t today her birthday????”. WHAT?? Holy Cow. It IS her birthday!!! We totally missed Abby’s first birthday. Does that tell you how crazy our lives have been lately? Wow. I am just reeling from that. I feel awful, but at the same time, it’s pretty funny. It’s the 4th child syndrome, just starting a little early. *sigh*
So anyway, we’re going to start celebrating her half birthday. So mark your calendars….. June 27th, we’ll celebrate Abby’s birthday (half)……hahaha
So the holidays are almost over and I am beginning to see how the year goes by much faster the older you get. At work, I’ve already got my schedule prepared for all of my teachers through the month of April. Wow, then we begin to prepare for VBS. Actually I’ll start that sometime in March.
Did I mention that I got a Dyson for Christmas? Look it up. I LOVE IT!! Also, that wonderful hubby of mine picked out Christmas China for us. I got that sweet thermos from Starbucks that I’ve had my eye on for months, hmmm, what else? A turtle. Yes, he bought me a real turtle. I collect turtles, you know the little bitty ones,. Tell me, if you collected elephants, little ones to sit on a shelf, and someone bought you a real one would you feel the same way about it? Hahaha! Just kiddin, I think it was sweet. And she really is a beautiful turtle. *wink*
Hope everyone has a wonderful New Year. Isn't this the time of year when all the overweight people in the world vow to lose weight, all the drowning in debt people vow to get out of debt, all the smokers vow to quit smoking, drinkers vow to quit drinking and loners vow to spend more time with family. LOL I think that's probably the top 5.
Let's see, what's my New Year's Resolution this year???
Hmmmm....
I'll let you know what it is after the 1st.